I have made my share of experiences as a feminist
student. In Germany, being called a feminist is a clear insult, but I was
raised to believe it was a compliment. I find women shouldn’t be afraid of
“outing” themselves as feminists.
In many countries, especially in Germany, talking about
topics such as gender equality and women’s empowerment (and heaven forbid in
front of a group of strangers!) is deemed a social taboo and one is immediately
labeled a man-hating feminist. Whenever I strike up the subject among friends,
both male and female, I get a massive eye-rolling response.
By now, having read the first part of my article, many
of you probably think I am an awkward feminist geek. Women especially will think: “She’s a
man-hater! I would never speak publicly (and certainly not during a date!)
about women’s empowerment!” My response to that is: If you are deeply
interested in a topic, why not share your enthusiasm with others? If a guy told
you on a date that he is committed to sustainability and ecological
preservation, and therefore spends his spare time raising awareness for
endangered species or deforestation, you would most likely find this
attractive. Why do women think talking about women’s empowerment will make a
guy run for the hills? It is about time this conservative and out-of-date way
of thinking stops. I myself have made many positive experiences when talking to
strangers (and, yes, also on a date) about my passion for gender equality. No
matter what your commitment, it is important to share this with others to
foster your passion.
Annamarie
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